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November 12, 2019

What You Can Expect at a Di Bruno Bros. After Hours Event

I talk a lot about things you can do with groups in Philly. But for the years I’ve lived in Philly, there was one event that had been ~on my list~ for ages but I never had the chance to go to… until this summer! My friend Kelly chose the Di Bruno Bros After Hours event for her birthday this year, and my girlfriends and were v excited to be a part of it.

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August 3, 2017

11 Philly Things to do with Your Work Buds

As most of you know, Her Philly is not my full-time gig. I work with a v fun and v hip group of coworkers who, luckily, enjoy hanging out with each other outside of work. Of course, there are frequent and necessary happy hours and dinner dates, but sometimes, when you need those “team building” events, it’s hard to come up with something everyone agrees on. Our team recently grew, and coming up with something everyone wanted to do proved to be a little more difficult than our boss thought. So, a few of my coworkers (thank you, Alex, Chelsea, Tim & Zanaya!) came up with some great ideas and we put it to a vote. I added a few extras to the list, but our winner is still in this lineup – any guesses? Philly Team Building + Coworker Outing Ideas Continue Reading…

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Filed Under: playing Tagged: bowling, cooking, corporate outings, escape the room, franklin institue, full & happy, fun with coworkers, go-karting, indoor skydiving, longwood gardens, philadelphia wine school, philly group party ideas, pottery, science after hours, south bowl, tailgating, wine tasting, yay clay!

April 7, 2013

A Check Off The Bucket List {#DaringlyHigh}

Don’t you love when you get an amazing opportunity? An opportunity to do something you never, ever, ever thought you would or could actually do in your life? I sure do. And I hope when you get that opportunity, you say yes, without hesitation. You’ll be happy you did.

Last weekend, the awesome Kory Aversa set me up with one of these opportunities. A chance for me to do something I’ve wanted to do ever since I saw Carrie Bradshaw do it (no, not that) . . . fly!

Set up for the PIFA Daringly High Trapeze Class, taught by Fly School Circus Arts, on Broad Street in Philadelphia all April long / Her Philly

In case you haven’t heard, our city is getting its culture on all this month with the arrival of PIFA, or the Philadelphia International Festival of the Arts. And, lucky for me, one of the Festival’s events is a Daringly High Trapeze Class, taught by Fly School Circus Arts. Now, if we have similar brains, I know you may have some doubts as to if a class like this is feasible/possible/safe/sane for you to take. But hang on ladies, because I’m about to tell you how you can conquer your fears & walk away feeling empowered & just plain awesome.

My trapeze lesson took place last Saturday morning at 9am. My class had about 10 students in it, from kids under 10 to grown adults. I went by myself, so while chatting with some of my classmates, they started rattling off the activities they’ve done – rock climbing, gymnastics, sky diving. Had I done anything like that? No. But I stayed calm. 🙂

The staff started with their lesson and we were brought to a practice trapeze bar near the ground to try an upside down hang by hooking our legs on the bar. I hesitated – there was just no way I would be able to do it. But with the instructor’s help, I somehow got my legs hooked. It was a struggle, and then the nerves started setting in. What in the world did I get myself into?

About to fly on the trapeze during the PIFA Daringly High Trapeze Class, taught by Fly School Circus Arts, on Broad Street in Philadelphia all April long / Her Philly

After our lesson, we were ready to fly. The entire process from climbing the ladder to landing in the net is relayed by instructions from the staff, so you do what & go where they say.  When you are told to climb, you start up the ladder attached to the platform, which is attached to a belt around your waist. Even though you may feel uneasy climbing this tall, tall ladder, it’s not going to go anywhere, and believe me, you can do it! When you get to the top of the platform, you hold on to a rope and get your hands chalked up. The instructor at the top of the platform buckles you in and starts prompting you to get a hold of the trapeze.

About to fly on the trapeze during the PIFA Daringly High Trapeze Class, taught by Fly School Circus Arts, on Broad Street in Philadelphia all April long / Her Philly

Now, this is the stage where I thought I was not going to be able to jump. My palms are actually sweating right now as I type. Getting your right hand on the trapeze is OK. But when you have to remove your left hand from the rope to grab this floating bar, and the only thing keeping you on the platform is the instructor holding your belt, it’s scary. And it definitely took me about a minute to get up the nerve to do it . . .

About to fly on the trapeze during the PIFA Daringly High Trapeze Class, taught by Fly School Circus Arts, on Broad Street in Philadelphia all April long / Her Philly

But after some major trust building by the instructor up on that platform, I did it. And I will tell you honestly, the first time you do that, the hardest part of the entire lesson is over. Now, it’s time to fly. About to fly on the trapeze during the PIFA Daringly High Trapeze Class, taught by Fly School Circus Arts, on Broad Street in Philadelphia all April long / Her PhillyOn the instructor’s call – you jump. Once you’re up there & the bar is in your hands, this is not so bad. So, here we gooooo!

Flying on the trapeze during the PIFA Daringly High Trapeze Class, taught by Fly School Circus Arts, on Broad Street in Philadelphia all April long / Her Philly

This is the most amazing feeling ever. I shrieked, of course, but it literally feels incredible. I’d say it’s a combination of conquering a fear, doing something you didn’t think your body could do, and not giving a care in the world as to what the people strolling by on Broad Street are thinking of you.

Flying on the trapeze during the PIFA Daringly High Trapeze Class, taught by Fly School Circus Arts, on Broad Street in Philadelphia all April long / Her Philly

On your first swing out into the air, you are supposed to try and hook your legs. However I was still getting over the fact that I just jumped off a platform and was flying through the air, so I missed my opportunity. No sweat though, I still had two more tries.

On my second turn, the ladder climb got easier. I felt less scared up on the platform. And I was determined to hook my legs!

Flying on the trapeze during the PIFA Daringly High Trapeze Class, taught by Fly School Circus Arts, on Broad Street in Philadelphia all April long / Her PhillyAnd what do you know . . . I did it! I also shrieked again.Hanging upside down on the trapeze during the PIFA Daringly High Trapeze Class, taught by Fly School Circus Arts, on Broad Street in Philadelphia all April long / Her Philly

After you hook your legs, at the instructor’s command, you lift your body up and grab onto the bar. This is also not as hard as it looks with all of that adrenaline pumping and the momentum of your swing. Hanging upside down on the trapeze during the PIFA Daringly High Trapeze Class, taught by Fly School Circus Arts, on Broad Street in Philadelphia all April long / Her Philly

To get “down,” you let go at the instructor’s command to land into the net. Check me out in action. Hey, I didn’t claim to be graceful.

 

On your third turn, the staff assess if you’re ready to be caught by another instructor. I was not, but I was totally content with that. And I hooked my legs AGAIN!

Hanging upside down on the trapeze during the PIFA Daringly High Trapeze Class, taught by Fly School Circus Arts, on Broad Street in Philadelphia all April long / Her Philly

Hanging upside down on the trapeze during the PIFA Daringly High Trapeze Class, taught by Fly School Circus Arts, on Broad Street in Philadelphia all April long / Her Philly

However Lindsey & Natalie, two of my classmates, were naturals and got caught! They also took all of these great pictures & videos for me, so thank you girls! Check them out:

Overall, the experience was incredible. The staff members I worked with from Fly School Circus Arts were really fantastic. They made you feel completely comfortable & safe, which is important when you’re not fearless like the 6 year old children in my class. 🙂

Instructors and Staff from Fly School Circus Arts teaching the PIFA Daringly High Trapeze Class, on Broad Street in Philadelphia all April long / Her PhillyInstructors and Staff from Fly School Circus Arts teaching the PIFA Daringly High Trapeze Class, on Broad Street in Philadelphia all April long / Her PhillyInstructors and Staff from Fly School Circus Arts teaching the PIFA Daringly High Trapeze Class, on Broad Street in Philadelphia all April long / Her Philly

If you read this post and say, hey that looks like fun, but I could never do it . . . I urge you to reconsider. Remember my little speech about saying yes without hesitation? Here is your opportunity! The Trapeze Class is $55 a person for a two hour class (read all of their policies here). AKA that new spring dress you were looking at? Pass. This will be an experience you remember for a lifetime and you can do it!

Thanks to Kory at Aversa PR & Events for setting me up on this amazing opportunity! There are tons of PIFA events taking place now through April 27th, so I encourage you to check it out. I know I’ll definitely be hitting up the Street Fair!

Do you have any fears you’ve overcome or things you’ve done that you didn’t think were possible? I’d love to hear about them. Thanks for reading! xx

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I know people have been unmuting themselves this week. And I find myself conflicted, because while I don’t really fault them for getting back to posting and still (hopefully) keeping up their anti-racism work, some of the stories and posts I’ve been seeing have really, really angered me. ⁣
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These past few weeks, while I do feel like I have been waking up, have also been extremely painful. I am capital P Privileged. I have Black friends, colleagues, acquaintances. I never talked to them about race. I never pressed through the challenging conversations with people close to me. I never knew my role in this fight, or took responsibility enough to ask what it could be. ⁣
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I have been having many, many, daily conversations about racism. With my family, my friends, with Jim, and *a lot* with coworkers. Prior to George Floyd’s death, I would have never talked about race at work. Let alone put things out there on Zoom calls and settle into the uncomfortableness. But I’m working on getting comfortable with the uncomfortable. ⁣
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I keep seeing this quote from Sonia Gupta:⁣
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“Unlearning white supremacy isn't Instagrammable. It's deeply personal, existential, and difficult work. It often feels horrible. It will make you cry. You might become depressed. It can be very lonely and isolating. It will shatter your ego and your belief system.⁣
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Do it anyway.” ⁣
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To use some steps from @theoptin workshop I participated in tonight (& that brought me to tears), I am motivated to make a personal change, and I have hope that our world can end white supremacy. I need to make my personal work a consistent part of my life. So I know, even though the getting back into posting things outside of BLM has been very jarring for me, I do believe it’s inevitably how I’m going to make this change long term. ⁣
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Please continue to call me out, I’m learning. I’ve been very thankful for those who have kindly offered me alternatives to some of my white saviorism ideas. Community is important right now (another takeaway from @theoptin), so I’m thankful I have you. Talk to you soon. xx
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